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“A less obvious one to a lot of people, due to how we’re socialized these days, is if she relies on you for her happiness. I don’t mean like if she goes through a rough patch and needs to rely on you more than usual, I mean like she behaves like if you loved her enough it would cure her mental issues.”
“I often see people like this using the people close to them as free (but bad) therapy. It seems like they all fight with their S.O. constantly and beg for advice they’d never take.
It’s sad because it comes from a place of deep sadness, loneliness, and anxiety, but someone pulling the energy from you like that is miserable and draining to be around for very often or very long.”
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